PSYCHOLOGY OF ANGER

PSYCHOLOGY OF ANGER A Professor while teaching asked his students. “Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?” The students thought for a while. One said, “Because we lose our calm.” Nevertheless, the professor asked again, “Why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you are angry?” The students gave some more reasons but none satisfied the professor. Finally, he explained,   "When two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their heart psychologically. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier  they  are, the stronger  they  will  shout  to hear each other  through  that  great  distance. Then the Professor   asked," What happens when two people fall in love”? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why?  Because their hearts are psychologically, close. The distance between them is very close.  The professor   continued,   "When they love each other even more, what happens?    They do not speak, they only   whisper   and they even get closer to each other in their love. Finally,  they  even  need  not  to  whisper,   they  only  look  at each other  and that's  all.  So next time you   shout  on a loved one, know  that  you are creating   a distance  between   your  heart  and that  persons'   heart. Do not be hot-tempered               “ENJOY EVERY MOMENT WITH A SMILE, LIFE IS EASY”